One income between three

So I live in a poly household in Melbourne, myself and my partners – who are the ‘on paper’ relationship. I’m the ‘single’ person who lives with them. And unsurprisingly Centrelink have been awful, one of my partners earns too much, so his partner can’t get the Austudy he’s entitled to. I can’t get Austudy because even though I haven’t claimed it before, the fact that I have an undergraduate already precludes me from support when I need it. Because I of course planned the massive career change and letting go of 10 years I spent pursuing another career all for nothing…

So we subsist on one income between the three of us, and it kind of works. It kind of works because one of our parents is in a position to help us with rent. It kind of works because we all genuinely work together and try hard to be good about money and all the messy emotions it brings up together. And we recognise that at this point in our lives and relationships, we’re intertwined financially.

We all contribute to the house, in various ways, and so we’re all entitled to the income. There’s not much to go around but it (mostly) pays the bills, the rent and groceries. I’m better than I ever have been about making groceries last, making food last and making it delicious and so we don’t often *feel* poor. Even though we rarely can have a night out, or dinner out, or go to the movies or any of those things we could  manage occasionally when we at least had some welfare support.

I’m writing about this because I am looking at the meal plan I made on the fly yesterday for the next two weeks to get us through a fortnight where anything we can avoid spending on food, can pay bills. We’re not late on anything, but we’re working hard to keep it that way. In any case, I thought I’d share what my meal plan was and how I decided on it for this particular fortnight. Namely, what stuff has past!me done that makes this next two weeks earlier. Let’s do that bit first:

Past!me has:

  • Made oodles of stock, so I have vegetable stock, beef stock, and chicken stock in my freezer. I also have plenty of frozen veggie scraps to make more (and we are running low on veggie stock).
  • Stocked up on some dry goods that are good for stretching things, accompanying things, part of the regular stuff we would use and works for a bunch of the ‘go-to’ meals we might make.
  • Looked at what is in the fridge and freezer that can be used for the fortnight easily: some beef mince, a lamb roast, 1/2 a cabbage, 4 small zucchinis (I still don’t have a plan for them yet).
  • I also have a well stocked pantry for spices, vinegars and other similar ingredients that you often need for various recipes and are good to have on hand to make awesome stuff from very little.
  • Made a beef and barley stew before the meal plan but that meant it was there and could be part of the planning process straight away! One meal and a fair few lunches down!

And now for the meal plan. I reasoned that counting leftovers and the need for lunches for me at home and Ral’s uni lunches for the next two weeks, we needed about 9-10 meals.

So this is what the meal plan looks like:

  • Tunisian Chicken (I had everything except the chicken and the coriander).
  • Marcella Hazan’s Smothered Cabbage Soup (I have everything for this).
  • Chana Masala (I needed the ginger and I bought some cheap dried chickpeas rather than use the canned ones I have).
  • Chicken Adobo (I needed the chicken and spring onions).
  • Alfredo Pasta (I do have some cream but it’s going on chocolate cake for birthday dinner tonight, so that remains the only thing I need).
  • Marcella Hazan’s Tomato, Onion and Butter pasta sauce (I have everything for this – we almost always do).
  • Macaroni Peas (I had just finished the last of the frozen peas and have bought some more).
  • Bukhara (This is where the lamb roast will go, and I had everything else except the ginger, which I bought for at least one other recipe).
  • Spaghetti Bolognaise (I have a great recipe for this and had the mince in the freezer. Plus, it makes a large pot. I had everything for it except red wine and we bought a cheap decent bottle).

So that’s 9 so far and I’ll see how far that gets us before I evaluate further. It’s a whole lot of guesstimation at the moment, so we’ll see how close or far off I am toward the end of things. (Maybe I’ll even remember to blog about it.) There are several options that are cheap that I can rope in at the last minute like Dal Makhani, or this gorgeous Broccoli Frittata which always impresses, or make a risotto or soup – those are always good go-to options.

So, there you have it, my angst, frustration and making the most of it in the form of meal planning. What makes things easier for this fortnight is, I’m home and I have very few commitments so I can do the cooking and make things work and spend extra time eking things out and adding to my stash of freezer meals without extra stress. The reason I’m trying to meal plan, spend as little as possible AND still maintain my freezer stash is because I’ll be away from home in June on prac, and it will make life a lot easier for Ral and Fox dinner wise if half of them are already made. It will also make it cheaper for them, which will be important because I anticipate needing more of our budget while I’m staying away from home and going to the hospital every day.

I have to say that my meal planning and frugal skills are both inspired by, and not nearly as well established or finely tuned as my best friend Sarah’s. She can do amazing things with meal planning and frugality. But all in all, I do well enough for what we need right now, and I pass it on to my partners. One  of whom is an exceptional cook, and also quite accomplished at making do, the other of whom is still learning the very basics of cooking. In my mind, this stuff is part of that basic learning.

Anway, have a picture of last night’s Tunisian Chicken dinner (not the prettiest plate unfortunately). Alas I forgot to take a picture of the cake! But I made this amazingly simple and delicious Chocolate Bundt Cake, which is not expensive to make and is one of the most delicious chocolate cakes I’ve ever made.

Not the prettiest plate, but Tunisian Chicken with couscous for dinner.

3 thoughts on “One income between three

  1. Sarah says:

    You knew I would read this, right? LOL

    Must be the season for it. We’re on a money diet, as I have whined at you about in the past, so I have been refreshing all of the old skills. 🙂

    I have started blogging about money and meals and frugality again too, but at this point it’s behind a paid membership access. I’ll probably move stuff out of there once I have finished fixing the website! I’m playing with WordPress again and enjoying a new (and cheap) hobby.)

    Thanks for the recipes, I’ll be looking at all of them!

    I was at Kakulas brothers the other day and managed to spend $26! It was a little more expensive than I remember, and they didn’t have dark brown sugar any more. Also discovered that their cornflakes were $8.70 a kilo! Whoa! I bought a bunch of cereals to mix together to see if I could price match Michael’s favourite cereal, but in the end doing it from Kakulas’ was actually slightly more expensive. Having said that though, it’s a lot more solid, so the kids are actually using less, so previously one box would go a week. I bought the equivalent of one box’s worth but it seems to be lasting longer.

    We’re three weeks into the money diet for us, and I’m pretty happy and not insane yet. I have been brooding a little too much over it, had a giggle about that with Lisa Marie yesterday, and hence the blogging at Simple Savings.

    *hugs*

    • Ju says:

      I did think you’d read it! And I’ll update the post with the link to your musings when you’re ready too *hugs* 🙂

      These are some of my favourite recipes that I’ve discovered on Food 52. Some of them are only cheap for this fortnight because it’s partly what we have on hand that past!me has planned for and put away, or things that I’ve got in the pantry from previous indulgence: pomegranate molasses for example. The Broccoli Frittata is a 10 egg affair which seems expensive on first glance but probably still cheaper than meat if you’re after a protein hit, and it’s got the most gorgeous custardy texture. We always have eggs and we use a lot of eggs for various meals because I can usually rely on having them or affording them. I want to practice and improve my curry cooking so I can be more confident in making some of those delicious curries that end up so cheap! I haven’t found a good place for me to go for dried goods in bulk here – and partly that’s a planning thing and doing the trip out there, and having the money to outlay at the time for the bulk stuff. We’ll see how it goes. Most fortnights we have to be careful of what grocery money we spend but we usually have more leeway than fortnight’s like this where there’s just *no* give.

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